Adoption
The hubs and I were at dinner last night with Jane and Adeline while Mary attended a birthday party. Ryan and I were talking and he asked me when he can adopt Jane. In the past we discussed waiting because of her dads' obligations. So when this came up in conversation, I was a little hesitant to bring it up again. So I said we can look into it and see what we actually have to do. Another reason I wanted to wait was because of her heritage. I wanted her to have the opportunity to learn about it and I need her birth father for that. So, the more I thought about it and as I think about it today, I am researching the steps to adoption and want to talk to her dad about creating some sort of scrap book or symbolic family tree for her about the Jindal heritage. That way if she ever gets curious or just needs a sense of security I can't offer, she can look at it. I guess I'm curious to know what you all think...so leave a comment. Regardless, Ryan wants Jane to be his daughter and ...